How to Find Out if Your Spouse is on Dating Sites
Editor’s Note: This article was originally published on September 13th, 2018, and has been completely revamped and updated for accuracy and comprehensiveness.
Find Out if Your Spouse is on a Dating Site
The concept of everlasting love is often threatened by numerous dating websites and online dating apps. In these apps or sites, people can interact, flirt, and have love affairs without anyone knowing about it.
Sometimes people overlook the red flags because they refuse to believe their spouse is cheating on them. Other times, the red flags are impossible to ignore, and you start questioning if there is someone else.
Luckily, the answer is not impossible to find. At least, not as impossible as an adulterer would like it to be. If your spouse is having an affair on a dating website, the technology won’t let him go undercover, giving you more opportunities to find out.
Here is how:
Access their browsing history on shared devices
Back in the day, some love letters forgotten by mistake in a book were all you had, but today browsing history has changed everything. The browsing history on shared devices will quickly help you track the steps of your potentially cheating spouse.
Search for dating sites used by people to find love or have love affairs and make a list of the most popular sites. See if you can find any of them in the browsing history.
Some of the most popular sites that target married people to have an affair are MarriedCafe.com, NoStringsAttached.com, FriendFinder.com, Match.com, and eHarmony.com.
We recommend you keep an eye out for these websites.
Apps should be on your radar also if you get suspicious of your spouse. Look for famous apps, such as Tinder, Bumble, OkCupid, XO, Facebook Dating, and Grindr, which, according to Digital Trends, are the top dating apps for 2020.
You should target apps that encourage affairs like Vaulty Stocks, HAA, and TigerText.These apps are used to hide photos and videos, or even make text messages disappear from the phone. There are infinite apps to hide information from everyone else, and Lifewire posted a list about the best vault apps for 2020.
Generally, anything with the words “match” and “love” in it is an alarm signal.
Remember! It’s illegal to access someone’s device without their express permission.
Yes, we’re talking about potential criminal charges in this case. But you don’t have to worry because there are other legal ways to find out the truth.
Google their personal details and profile photo
Google is the king of online search and offers a tremendous amount of all types of information. This is why if you want to do an investigation by yourself, Google may be your best ally. If you like using other search engines, Lifewire offers a list of the top search engines of 2020.
Run a search using your spouse’s email address, name, phone number, and see what Google or any other search engine has to say about them. You can use Google images and search for your spouse’s profile photos that you can download from their social media accounts. They might show up in the search results.
Join the most popular dating sites and apps – for a test
You can easily create a fake profile on these sites or apps if you’ve found that your spouse is on dating sites. This way, you can conduct your investigation from the inside.
Type in your spouse’s physical features and location and see what comes up. To get better and faster results, adjust your profile to meet your spouse’s love interests, so the site or app can match you two easier. This will work mostly on dating apps like Tinder that allow people to meet based on location and similar preferences.
If you still have doubts, call a private investigator.
Before doing anything, you might regret later, learn what you can legally do according to the state you live in. It is essential to do this research and know what you can or can’t do according to the law.
Also, by doing this, you avoid getting into legal problems you might not even be aware of. Hiring a private investigator will help you legally gather all the information you are looking for.
Sometimes, the old fashioned way to find out if your spouse is a cheater is the most reliable way! While the browsing history, Google, and other online investigating strategies may provide hints and help you make assumptions, a private investigator will deliver irrefutable proof, which is what you need in this case!
If you want to use your spouse’s dating profile as evidence in a divorce case, the evidence must be legally obtained. Otherwise, the evidence could be useless. The best way to avoid legal problems when looking for evidence is by hiring a professional private investigator.
A private investigator can find all the information you need and more, with the experience and tools they have, they will deliver efficiently.